OK will do, thanks it might be a day or so as i just discovered i have two php versions installed on my server, oh what fun.. 5.3 and 5.6 ill have to learn how to remove both or one of them so ill have to stop here with the config and get at this in a day or so after i fix this. No since in continuing the config when the php is all messed up. 
I do think we are very close as i did a test after i activated all the php extensions in the global php ini file (which i had not done so that might be the issue) i do know that before i removed the db i did pull up the page and i did get the kaltura welcome page so i think once i get the php figured out it shoud go fine but ill keep you posted here in a day or so when i get back to this. Just more proof that programmers dont always make good server admins lmao 
Thanks again jess